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On The Porch

by Susanne Stadler | August 23rd, 2010 | Our Homes | Please Comment

The porch, a bench in front of the house, these are places of view and rest, places of idle emptiness. At a time when most of us are nearing the end of vacations and summer is coming to an end, we continue to long for such places.

Sitting on the porch is the symbol for having time. It used to be built into daily life, sitting on the ‘porch’, looking back on the events of the day after a days’ work. In our society idleness is a double edged sword. For the active one, it is a legitimate desire, a longing rarely satisfied. For the inactive one, having time threatens to become a stigma.  You have to earn your place on the ‘porch’.

After a life’s work do we deserve the ‘porch’? There is loveliness and loneliness connected to it. The two following poems both address this duality at the eve of one’s life. For the architect, designing a space of idleness is a wonderful challenge.  It should be part of every house, meaningful in its location, beautiful in its simplicity and thoughtful in its attention to colors, materials and proportions.  It should be part of the design for aging and would contribute to ‘being at home with growing old.’

Wendell Berry

THEY SIT TOGETHER ON THE PORCH” – by Wendell Berry

They sit together on the porch, the dark
Almost fallen, the house behind them dark.
Their supper done with, they have washed and dried
The dishes–only two plates now, two glasses,
Two knives, two forks, two spoons–small work for two.
She sits with her hands folded in her lap,
At rest. He smokes his pipe. They do not speak,
And when they speak at last it is to say
What each one knows the other knows. They have
One mind between them, now, that finally
For all its knowing will not exactly know
Which one goes first through the dark doorway, bidding
Goodnight, and which sits on a while alone.

Mark Strand

OLD PEOPLE ON THE NURSING HOME PORCH

Able at last to stop

And recall the days it took

To get them here, they sit

On the porch in rockers

Letting the faded light of

Afternoon carry them off.

I see them moving back and forth

Over the dullness

Of the past, covering ground

They did not know was there,

And ending up with nothing

Save what might have been.

And so they sit

Gazing out between the trees

Until in all that vacant

Wash of sky, the wasted

Vision of each one

Comes down to earth again.

It is too late to travel

Or even find a reason

To make it seem worthwhile.

Already now the evening

Reaches out to take the

Aging world away.

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It Takes A Village

by Susanne Stadler | June 15th, 2010 | Our Relations | Please Comment

It takes a village to keep a person of old age in the community and keep them safe. Part of today’s village in the San Francisco Bay Area is an array of service agencies without whom the wheels would stop. Yet these agencies and the services they offer are confusing and fractured, difficult to access and to understand both by interested seniors and their advocates. Jessica Lehman introduced The Social Safety Net Initiative at the last AHWGO meeting. This is a Bay Area project with the goal to connect senior service providers, the official ones like service agencies and the non official ones like emergency providers (police and fire fighters). For now the goal is to encourage agencies to share resources and recognize the non official providers as members of the community that provides senior services. In the long run the goal is to encourage agencies to collaborate rather than compete, share resources and offer training. Even though the Bay Area is a close conglomerate of cities, these cities seem to be far apart when it comes to knowledge transfer and collaboration for senior services.

Yet the village has many other ‘players’. In addition to non profits there are for profit companies that provide services to seniors at home. Then there are non-profits that are membership groups that incorporate the idea of self help such as the ‘village’ model (examples are Ashby Village in Berkeley or San Francisco Village),  or self development groups where people come together to design their environment, both physically and socially as they move toward old age.

And then there are of course the organizations that provide services to the community but not specifically to seniors but are called upon to do just that every day. These are the emergency responders. They are often called by an old person who is lonely. Fire fighters and police are what people think of when they need help, both physically and emotionally. They do not need research and are available to anybody, universally – without knowledge, without membership.

Universal design for architects and product designers means environments and products that work for everyone. How could universally designed services be defined? Universally designed services are centered on the human being. They should be available for everyone, easy to access without special knowledge and centered on a humanistic approach to service not only an institutional one. Universally designed services centered on the human being mean integrated, cross disciplinary solutions that take into consideration the physical, spatial, social and emotional needs of a human being. Not all service can be universally designed but there has to be a sizable core for a sizable population.

We live in a complicated world that needs such easily recognizable resources. The 211 number is an effort in this direction. It has been established to connect people with health and human services, to help people find help.

Then they are ‘universal’ services for specific groups, such as On Lok in San Francisco. This is ‘one stop’ shopping for the needs of seniors, from health care to transportation to emotional connections.

The current momentum to improve services for an aging population will hopefully spur collaborations, make access to services easier, group services for easy access and inspire organizations to look beyond their boundaries and ‘link up’ with other providers in a meaningful way. This can only work if funding sources also recognize and further universal design.

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The Geography of Aging

by Susanne Stadler | May 23rd, 2010 | Our Cities | 1 Comment

It is obvious that geography impacts the aging experience. There is a difference between countries, between areas within a country, between cities and even between neighborhoods. Sometime during the aging experience everybody has a need for safety, connectedness and comfort. Which of these needs are met by the a person’s lifestyle depends on the geography of old age.

Urban/Suburban Area/USA

A study of transportation by older adults by MIT Age Lab and AARP reflects an interesting picture of how mobility is perceived in urban and suburban areas in the US by older adults.

1. The personal car is the preferred mode of transportation.

2. Driving seniors in suburbia cannot really think of an alternative. Not being able to drive comes close to a disability.

3. Urban drivers have more information about alternatives and feel more comfortable taking public transportation.

4. Taxis often do not provide the services seniors need, such as waiting while they shop or bringing in groceries.

5. Walking is not considered a mode of transportation but just a way to stay physically and mentally fit.

6. Biking does not feature as a mode of transportation.

Wherever people live they continue their habits in old age. When they walked throughout their lives they will continue walking, when they took public transportation they will continue doing that. The mode of transportation people are used to and are emotionally connected to is one piece in the puzzle of assessing the needs of a person of old age and is an important piece of information in filling in the ‘blanks’.

Overcoming Geography?

Digital technology more and more contributes to bridging the mobility gap.

Seeing your doctor from home: Denmark leads the way in digital care. Without leaving their home people can ‘go’ to the doctor for check up’s with the help of a computer, a web camera and some simple medical devices. This opens the potential ‘blank’ of loneliness and physical exercise.

Playing tennis from your chair: 11% of people 65 and older have game consoles at home. Nursing homes are bringing in the Wii – people are overcoming the fear of technology.

Digital technology fills some holes but opens others, especially the one of emotional loneliness and physical exercise. Being able to do more from home means less incentive to ‘go out’. Designing solutions to support somebody’s ability to be ‘at home with growing old’ has to take into account not only the functional but emotional needs and be aware of the geography of the aging experience. They have to be a comprehensive, coordinated solutions.

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