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Maintaining and Building Community

Maintaining and Building Community

October 3, 2019 San Francisco

 

 

TAKEAWAY

Sometimes we grow old in a ready-made community such a traditional faith community, sometimes we are thrown into a completely new one, such as when moving into a age-supportive housing or joining a Village. In any case building and maintaining community requires discipline and determination in later life.

Some of the important ingredients to make this a successful endeavor surfaced in this engaging discussion:

  • One’s vocations change throughout life and is not just tied to work. One’s vocation is of value to a community at any stage in life.
  • “I matter” is critical to the health and welfare of all human beings.
  • Community sparks when as little as two people connect — and multiplies from there.
  • Demographic age is not the community builder – shared interest and passion is. Let’s ‘unclump’ age buckets
  • Trust is the key entry point into a community

Thank you to our amazing speakers:

Patty Spaniak, SF Community Living Campaign

Marcie Rogo, Senior Marketing Consultant and co-founder of Stitch, an online commmunity builder for people 50+

Candiece Milford, Managing Director of Marketing, Leader of the Plaza Social Club, Rhoda Goldman Plaza

Rev. Carol Antablin Miles, PhD, MDiv, Pastor of the Chinese Presbyterian Church, Oakland

Molly Tello, Volunteer Coordinator, Next Village San Francisco

We would like to thank our premier season sponsor, Rhoda Goldman Plaza & our forum sponsor the Community Living Campaign for supporting this event.

 

Lifelong Homes: Resource and Ally

Lifelong Homes: Resource and Ally

September 5, 2019,
Ed Roberts Campus, Berkeley
 

THE TAKE AWAY: Leaking faucets, toilets, windows, moldy decks, stairs – it all sounds so banal but Rebuilding Together, a nationwide organization that helps low income homeowners and especially seniors with home repair and maintenance knows that these seemingly banal problems can often destroy the only major asset people have or cause accidents that push somebody out of their long term home and neighborhood.

AAA has recognized that deferred maintenance and repair is a broader issue and recently started ‘House Manager’, a membership service that offers an annual home assessment and connects you with home repair services.

The Aging 360 Tool Box that At Home With Growing Older has been building is filling the gap of the healthy home that adapts to your needs. It starts with the awareness that one’s environment can adapt to one’s habits and needs instead of us trying to make do with standard set ups and designs. The hardware store is a treasure drove for such little DIY adaptations as are Outdoor Equipment stores.

From Sugru the kneadable colorful material that can be molded and attached to different materials so that for example a grip of a knife you use every day fits better into your hand to a simple plastic hook, called Command Utility Hook that can be attached to most surfaces by peeling off a strip in the back. At the Outdoor Stores, headlamps are a great item for bed time reading or the night time walk to the bathroom.

Participants and presenters shared stories that revolved a lot about the challenges of the bathroom – such as molded shower seats that instead of providing safety became slides. Some suggestions for convenience, comfort and safety were revolving and movable shower seats, motion activated, battery powered LED lights at the perimeter of the bed, sensory markers like a lavender plant at the bottom of the staircase and of course hooks, hooks and hooks – which can also be used as pulls when turned upside down.

In general the sense was that as long as we think about aging mainly as disease and as long as solutions are designed without imagination and without really understanding the varied needs – from safety to delight, people need to take matters into their own hands, from home maintenance with the perspective of making one’s home an ally to DIY solutions that make everyday life more convenient, safe and therefore pleasurable.

AGE-IN

AGE-IN

June 1, 2019
Ed Roberts Campus
Berkeley, CA

Thank you all for participating in our 1st agein. We hope that you had an invigorating day with new insights.

We would like to thank our Partner the Center for Accessible Technology , our Lead Sponsor Rhoda Goldman Plaza, our Event Sponsors the Community Living Campaign, Rhoda Goldman Plaza, Avenidas, Resin Advertising and Scott & Warner Builders, Inc., our Individual Donors, our amazing Learning Circle Leaders & Conversation Facilitators, and our tireless Volunteers!

You can read our Age-In booklet here.

The Power of Play

The Power of Play

Thursday April 4, 2019
Rhoda Goldman Plaza
 

THE TAKEAWAY: Play, and its cousins Imagination & Creativity, are a natural part of life at any age. Play allows us to explore outside of our routines and free up the places where we feel stuck. Join us for a look at Play in the lives of older adults, and get inspired by contemporary and historical role models who know the value of Play!

Zoë Francesca, MFA, Activity Therapist, believes we never lose our potential for self expression and connection. She works with older adults with and without memory loss, using art, music, literature and nature to engage the spirit, the intellect and the whole person.

Shela Pearl worked as an educator in NYC for over 40 years and was a recipient of the National Endowment for the Humanities’ Teacher of The Year award. She directed a high school English department, studied with Shakespeare & Co Theater, and co-led conversation groups at The Atria, a senior living community.

Ernest Kahn is an industrial designer, skateboarder, and yoyo champion.

We would like to thank our sponsors, Rhoda Goldman Plaza and the Stupski Foundation, and our dedicated volunteers for making this event possible.

Here are a few snapshots from the wonderful evening.

Embracing the Small to Enlarge Our World

Embracing the Small to Enlarge Our World

March 7, 2019
Ed Roberts Campus
 

THE TAKEAWAY: As we grow older, our world may shrink. We may not be as active as we once were, travel as widely, socialize as frequently, or remain as busy as we used to be. This does not mean that this smaller world cannot be as rich of an experience. By learning to see what is right in front of us, we can discover exquisite beauty, experience intense joy, and feel connected throughout life’s transitions.

In this forum, Jane Anne Staw, a Bay Area writer and writing coach, taught ways to keep our world as large as possible.

In case you missed the forum, here is a live stream video of the event:

Revolutions in Transportation:  How they impact the quality of urban life and the age-friendliness of cities

Revolutions in Transportation: How they impact the quality of urban life and the age-friendliness of cities

February 7, 2019
Perkins + Will San Francisco 
 

THE TAKEAWAY: After decades of no change in urban transportation infrastructure – your parents and grandparents already waited at the bus stop – we are now in the midst of a transportation revolution, from ride sharing services to autonomous cars, that is rapidly changing the way we get from A to B. This forum will look at the potential impact of this trend on the quality of urban life and how this might affect the age-friendliness of a city.

 

Speakers/Panelists:
Gerry Tierney, Architect and Associate Principal at Perkins + Will and Director of P+W’s Smart Mobility Lab.

Naomi Armenta, Senior Associate at Nelson/Nygaard, Specialist, Transportation for seniors and people with disabilities

Ian Griffiths, Director, Seamless Bay Area, Nonprofit advocating for a unified and world-class transportation network in the Bay Area

Warren Logan, Senior Transportation Planner at San Francisco County Transportation Authority

 

Design Without Limits:  The Art of Creating Beautiful, Accessible Homes

Design Without Limits: The Art of Creating Beautiful, Accessible Homes

January 10, 2019
Ed Roberts Campus 
 

THE TAKEAWAY: Design for accessibility benefits us every day in public life, from curb cuts to stair rails to wider doors. In the realm of the private home, it is mostly shunned because accessibility has gotten a bad rap. It’s often associated with stainless steel grab bars, utilitarian roll-in showers, clunky stair lifts, and other institutional images. But this isn’t necessary. Wheelchair-riding architect Erick Mikiten, AIA discussed the importance of a design-first approach to accessibility, which makes these features welcomed rather than feared and gives people of different abilities and ages the option to live in their homes long term.

As a Governor-appointed California Building Standards Commissioner, Erick Mikiten also gave an overview of the differences between the ADA, the building code, and Universal Design as they relate to single-family homes.

Check out these 10 ideas for a great accessible home.

Mikiten 10 Great UD Ideas

We would like to thank our season sponsors, Rhoda Goldman Plaza and the Stupski Foundation, our venue sponsor, Ed Roberts Campus, and our dedicated volunteers for making this event possible.

Long Distance Caregiving

Long Distance Caregiving

December 6, 2018
Rhoda Goldman Plaza
 

THE TAKEAWAY: In this forum three experts discussed the practical, and emotional challenges of long distance care giving.

We would like to thank our sponsors, Rhoda Goldman Plaza and the Stupski Foundation, and our presenters, Beth MacLeod LCSW, Donna Schempp LCSW, Christina Irving LCSW

Here are a few book and reading resources suggested by the speakers:

Butler, Katy:  Knocking on Heaven’s Door, The Path to a Better Way of Death, 2013, Scribner

McLeod, Beth Witrogen:  Caregiving, The Spiritual Journey of Love, Loss and Renewal, 1999, John Wiley & Sons

And a Long Distance Resource List

Aging with Power, Grace and Humor

Aging with Power, Grace and Humor

November 15, 2018
Ed Roberts Campus

 

THE TAKEAWAY: What’s What Productions presented a solo performance about the trials and tribulations of aging, such as menopause, care-taking older parents and all the funny and moving moments that happen along the way.

In What’s Wrong with a Mouse? Vicki works to heal a 20-year rift with her father, who disowned her for being queer. As Vicki cares for her father during his final days, she travels back in time with humor and heart.

We would like to thank our forum sponsors, venue sponsor, the Ed Roberts Campus, and our premier season sponsors, the Rhoda Goldman Plaza and the Stupski Foundation.

Here is a video of the performance:

What's Wrong with a Mouse? from Susanne Stadler on Vimeo.

The Role of Film Watching and Film Study for Older Adults

The Role of Film Watching and Film Study for Older Adults

October 4, 2018 
Rhoda Goldman Plaza
 

THE TAKEAWAY: Thank you to Rachel Main, from the Alzheimer’s Association and co-founder of Creative Aging San Francisco  and Mary Scott, who has been teaching film as a passion for this insightful evening. They offered us a look ‘behind the scenes’  – the power of movies to foster an inclusive experience for people with different abilities (see  ‘Movie Moments at the Vogue‘) , a place to connect with others that transcends cultural and social differences and lastly a place that allows us to tap into our love for play and creativity.   The evening started with a clip from ‘Singing in the Rain’ and somehow many of us walked away with the determination to do more singing and dancing!

Philanthropy in the Field of Aging: Cultivating Innovative Thinking and Solutions

Philanthropy in the Field of Aging: Cultivating Innovative Thinking and Solutions

September 6, 2018 
Google Community Space
 

THE TAKEAWAY: Innovative thinking does not only happen in the Bay Area tech industry it also happens in philanthropy, both public and private. An example is the law that passed in San Francisco in 2016 that designates annual funding (the ‘Dignity Fund’) for essential community-based services and supports for San Francisco seniors and adults with disabilities. It is a first-in-the-nation law.

Even though this law is an immense achievement, much more is needed. This forum explored the potential role and impact of private funders in cultivating innovative programs, thinking and solutions that support the diverse Bay Area population in growing old with dignity.

Thank you to Glen Galaich, CEO of the Stupski Foundation, and Shirin Vakharia, Director for Health & Aging, Marin Community Foundation, who presented and discussed the impact their foundations want to make in the field of aging.

Older Adults as Drivers of Innovation

Older Adults as Drivers of Innovation

JUNE 7, 2018
ARUP FORESIGHT
 

THE TAKEAWAY: This evening was full of entrepreneurial inspiration. We heard from older adults and learned how they are continuing their careers and pursuing their passions as entrepreneurs here in the Bay Area.

The conversation was led by Janet Oh, Paul Tasner, Kate Williams and was moderated by Gretchen Addi.

Thank you to our wonderful panelists, all those who came and the Arup Foresight for hosting this incredible evening.

Older Adults as Drivers of Innovation from Susanne Stadler on Vimeo.

Feminism and Ageism

Feminism and Ageism

MAY 3, 2018 
ED ROBERTS CAMPUS 

 

THE TAKEAWAY: Dr. Doris Bersing made a call to action, reminding the (majority female) participants in this forum that there is still much to fight for, that we can use the skills we learned when fighting for feminism to go to battle against ageism, encouraging us to embrace older age as an amazing opportunity to tap into the richness of our skills and to become mentors to younger generations.

Thank you Doris for your passion and persistence for mentorship and for seeing older adults as beautiful old souls and honor their diginity in the work you do!

Here is a short sound recording of this forum!

Insider Voices: Sharing Different Paths Taken, Lessons Learned and Questions Unanswered

Insider Voices: Sharing Different Paths Taken, Lessons Learned and Questions Unanswered

APRIL 5, 2018, 6 PM TO 8 PM
RHODA GOLDMAN PLAZA

THE TAKEAWAY: This forum was a powerful learning experience because the teachers were four women who spoke from personal experience with great clarity, honesty and gratitude. They were so generous in sharing their very personal questions, challenges and thoughts.
Sandy: Inspired us to make our voices heard, vote and be an activist.
Stephanie: Told us that there is always time to make new friends. Although at her age (80s), you cannot make long term friends anymore. She inspired us with her dreams and sense of humor.
Sherri: Taught us that we actually know about aging when we consider that we are standing on the shoulders of our ancestors. It is also so important to create a circle of support and ask for help.
Judy: Warmed our hearts when she actually described what being at home with growing older meant for her -adjusting emotionally to being an older person and adjusting to a new life at home with, in her case, chronic pain of arthritis.

“I walked away with much optimism and very proud to be part of the older women’s club” (Susi Stadler, 60).

Thank you to panelists Sherri Hayes Sawyer 63, Judy Jacobs 70, Sandy Ouye Mori 75, Stephanie DiGiorgio 83 and to our moderator Beth MacLeod, 60+.

Free to Move- From the Fullness of a Long Life

March 1, 2018
Ed Roberts Campus
 
 

THE TAKEAWAY: Greacian Goeke connected us all by asking us to move. A simple invitation that showed all of us that by not moving we are not expressing ourselves to the fullest. Thank you to Greacian and the members of the Improptu No Tutus for transforming us into social beings that evening.

Here is a taste of the connections made:

Social Security, Medicare and the Campaign Against Entitlements

Social Security, Medicare and the Campaign Against Entitlements

 February 1, 2018
San Francisco

 

THE TAKEAWAY:

The powerful slides of the presentations by Carroll Estes and Kevin Prindiville provide excellent data and concrete arguments why social insurance is beneficial for a flourishing society and economy.

Carroll Estes- Social Justice and Social Insurance

Kevin Prindiville Justice in Aging- Fighting Senior Poverty Through Law

Social Security, Medicare and the Campaign Against Entitlements from Susanne Stadler on Vimeo.

Thank you to our sponsors: Community Living Campaign and  Mikiko Huang and Marshall Stoller

 

How To Prepare For A Meaningful End Of Life

How To Prepare For A Meaningful End Of Life

January 11, 2018
Ed Roberts Campus Berkeley
 

THE TAKEAWAY: This forum had magic. Deep compassion, experience and humanity resonated in the conversation between Theologian Megory Anderson, Ph.D and Katy Butler, author and journalist. Megory who also leads the Sacred Dying Foundation shared her work about helping people to understand their last wishes and rites of passage. Katy Butler’s talked about her work on finding a path to the end of life that allows dying with dignity. Many of us walked away with looking at death with less fear and more hope.

Thank you to our generous sponsors:

Forum Sponsor: Age Wave

Venue Sponsors Ed Roberts Campus and Center for Accessible Technology

How To Prepare For A Meaningful End Of Life from Susanne Stadler on Vimeo.

How can we keep older adults connected?

How can we keep older adults connected?

December 7,  2017
Metta Fund, San Francisco

THE TAKEAWAY:  A huge thank you to our panel of speakers and moderator, Katy Hoepke from San Francisco Village, Katie Wade from Senior Center Without Walls, Cathy Michalec from Little Brothers- Friends of the Elderly, Keith Wong from the Felton Institute and Cathy Spensely, Director of Senior Division at the Felton Institute.

Here are some of the major points discussed this evening:

  1. Barriers to connection: Language (even within a family – especially in Chinese Community), quality of housing, transportation, lack of social care, shame (asking for help)and ageism.
  2. Isolation of Family Caregivers: More attention needs to be given to the social isolation of caregivers. They need better access to respite options.
  3. Connecting the connectors: The four panelists from four organizations who, in very different ways, address the social isolation, did not know each other. All agreed that there was room for collaboration.
  4. Volunteers: Find, match and motivate volunteers.  Many young people in SF want to make a difference. It is important to creating value for the volunteer and communicating the value. It is always a reciprocal relationship.
  5. Finding help: Not enough people know how to find the organizations who can help them. Nonprofits need the funds to invest in branding/marketing/outreach.

Ideas from the wrap-up brainstorming:

  • Resource guide for MDs.
  • Meeting between Chinese leaders and programs that address social isolation so that these services reach marginalized populations.
  • Start a conversation: How do we move towards intergenerational consciousness?
  • More arts in creative aging.
  • Make it an award/reward: Privilege to talk to an elder and learn about their aging experience and their perspective on how to manage this phase of life.
  • Involve arts in reducing shame.
Navigating The Encore Years

Navigating The Encore Years

October 5, 2017
Rhoda Goldman Plaza 
 

THE TAKEAWAY: What do you yearn for? Not too many people ask themselves this question in their ‘encore’ years. For Life Coach Josephine Withers this is the start of an exploration and the beginning of an action plan. Attendees were asked to role played coaching and discovered the power of this question. The goal is to give ourselves permission for a personal renaissance in this phase of life. It became also clear that this personal journey needs policy support  – that means the environment has to enable older adults – from curb cuts to elevator doors that close slowly. Much work still has to be done!

 
Taste, Flavor & Quality of Life

Taste, Flavor & Quality of Life

November 2, 2017
Ed Roberts Campus, Berkeley
 
 

THE TAKEAWAY:

Dr. Dara-Abrams is a gerontechnologist and sensory data scientist gave a passionate and in-depth presentation about the role of taste and flavor in how we experience life. It was clear that diminishing taste buds can cause loss of appetite, isolation and other related health issues. Senior Residences should place great importance on flavor choices to stimulate emotions, social connections, memories. To learn more look at the presentation TASTE & FLAVOR.